"Loving to Survive may be the most controversial–and most important–book written during the past two decades. In asserting their theory, the authors ask readers to re-consider virtually all that has been deemed `true' about relationships between men and women. Such a dramatic paradigm shift will challenge most readers. Whether the reader likes or dislikes this book, one thing seems certain: it will generate dialogue that will surely engage people both intellectually and emotionally."–Donna M. Stringer, feminist author and teacher and President, Executive Diversity Services Inc.