Details

ISBN-10: 1982196351
ISBN-13: 9781982196356
Publisher: Scribner Book Company
Publish Date: 05/07/2024
Dimensions: 8.40" L, 5.50" W, 0.80" H

Owner of a Lonely Heart: A Memoir of Motherhood and Absence

Paperback

Price: $17.99

Overview

Named a Best Memoir of 2023 by Oprah Daily – Selected by Time, NPR, and BookPage as a Best Book of 2023

“This book…is what memoir writing in the hands of a caring, curious wunderkind can be.” –Kiese Laymon, author of Heavy

From the award-winning author of Stealing Buddha’s Dinner, a powerful memoir of a mother-daughter relationship fractured by war and resettlement.

At the end of the Vietnam War, when Beth Nguyen was eight months old, she and her family fled Saigon for America. Only Beth’s mother stayed–or was left–behind, and they did not meet again until Beth was nineteen. Over the course of her adult life, she and her mother have spent less than twenty-four hours together.

Owner of a Lonely Heart is “a portrait of things left unsaid” (The New York Times), a memoir about parenthood, absence, and the condition of being a refugee: the story of Beth’s relationship with her mother. Framed by a handful of visits over the course of many years–sometimes brief, sometimes interrupted, some alone with her mother and others with the company of her sister–Beth tells an “unforgettable” (People) coming-of-age story that spans her childhood in the Midwest, her first meeting with her mother, and her own experience of parenthood.

Read More
Reviews
"Achingly beautiful... told with wrenching emotion and exquisite controlled prose. A soon-to-be classic with implications about immigration in any era."
–Oprah Daily

"Owner of a Lonely Heart is not a chronological memoir. It circulates among memories, embellishing and deepening the reader's and Nguyen's understanding of them... A superb writer, Nguyen gives readers a tactile sense of her childhood home life and the love and anguish she felt there."
–BookPage

"Nguyen grapples with vital questions of family, loss, and memory, giving voice to the oft overlooked contours of grief - and encouraging readers to reflect on their own relationships."
–Christian Science Monitor

"A portrait of things left unsaid ... this is a memoir for those late-night moments."
–New York Times Book Review

"Nguyen puts these experiences into writing, a healing recognition occurs, most movingly through her children, who are able to see and validate things she cannot."
–Washington Post

"Nguyen is a confident and reliable protagonist even when running up against painful memories, providing readers with enough distance as to almost be objective ... Nguyen has made a journey of facing her origins and contending with the limitations of American narratives, and we are lucky to be invited along the way."
–Brooklyn Rail

"Affecting ... The book is filled with honest and sometimes painful insights that Nguyen discovers in her search for truths about the past."
–New York Journal of Books

"The author–whose father fled with her from Saigon in 1975–considers her fraught, scant relationship with her biological mother, other formative maternal connections, and her own role as a mom to her sons in this thoughtful excavation."
–Vanity Fair

"A baby when brought to the U.S. from Vietnam, her mother left behind, Nguyen ponders the meaning of 'refugee, ' and 'mother, ' in this unforgettable memoir."
–People Magazine

"A deep dive into the void of a mother's absence and the silence surrounding it...Nguyen reevaluates what we call brokenness and creates hope that broken bonds can have meaning even if they are never mended to our satisfaction."
–The Christian Century

More Reviews

Details

ISBN-10: 1982196351
ISBN-13: 9781982196356
Publisher: Scribner Book Company
Publish Date: 05/07/2024
Dimensions: 8.40" L, 5.50" W, 0.80" H
Skip to content