Winner of the 2023 PNBA
"Putsata Reang paints an indelible portrait of her life and her tempestuous relationship with her mother who saved her life and expected a perfect Cambodian daughter in return.
Ma and Me is a wonderful book. I can't recommend it highly enough."
–Elizabeth George, author of Something to Hide "
Ma and Me paints a portrait of generational trauma as sedimentary... and yet Reang carves out moments for light."
–Meg Young, Columbia Journal of Literary Criticism "With a journalist's eye and a creative writer's heart, Reang has crafted a memorable memoir with poignant lines I'll bookmark for life."
–Pacific Northwest Booksellers Association "Familial ties and the scars of war are exquisitely examined in this luminous debut . . . A nuanced mediation on love, identity, and belonging. This story of survival radiates with resilience and hope."
–Publishers Weekly (starred review) "This beautiful story of struggling to reconcile love, family, and identity with generational trauma belongs on every queer immigrant's shelf. For those of us who know how it is to always fall between two worlds,
Ma and Me is not heartbreaking but heart-healing."
–Nicola Griffith, author of Spear "Heartfelt and evocative."
–Karla J. Strand, Ms. "
Ma and Me is an important new entry in the growing body of American refugee and immigrant literature, shining a fearless light on the experiences of queer people whose families have survived the trauma of war. It also stands apart as a work of lyrical beauty, exploring culture, duty, guilt and family with heartbreaking clarity."
–BookPage "[A] piercing memoir . . . [
Ma and Me features] well-wrought vignettes of a complicated mother-daughter bond."
–Kirkus "A book as close to perfect as any I have read in many years. Lyrical, emotional, and profoundly moving,
Ma and Me is in equal parts a love story between a mother and her daughter, and a family's tale of survival, war, and the inherited traumas. I read
Ma and Me in two days, and that is only because I forced myself to slow down to savor Putsata Reang's sharp, poetic prose."
–Loung Ung, author of First They Killed My Father
"At a time when there are more refugees than ever in history, and borders are places of violence and cruelty, two essential stories of our time converge in
Ma and Me: Americanization's multigenerational costs, and the way this converges with lesbian life. Putsata Reang expands both literatures with this openhearted memoir that grapples emotionally and historically with the profound consequences of displacement on future lives and relationships. A book that opens the door to include queer descendants of war survivors into the growing American library of love."
–Sarah Schulman, author of Let the Record Show
