ISBN-10: 0143133454
ISBN-13: 9780143133452
Publisher: Penguin Books
Publish Date: 09/07/2021
Dimensions: 7.70" L, 5.00" W, 0.60" H

Here We Are: My Friendship with Philip Roth


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Finalist for the 2020 National Jewish Book Awards

A deeply felt, beautifully crafted meditation on friendship and loss in the vein of A Year of Magical Thinking, and a touching portrait of Philip Roth from his closest friend.

When I entered the examining room twenty minutes after our arrival at Charlotte Hungerford Hospital, Philip said, No more books. Thus he announced his retirement.

So begins Benjamin Taylor’s Here We Are, the unvarnished portrait of his best friend and one of America’s greatest writers. Philip Roth’s place in the canon is secure, but less clear is what the man himself was like. In Benjamin Taylor’s beautifully constructed memoir, we see Roth as a mortal man, experiencing the joys and sorrows of aging, reflecting on his own writing, and doing something we all love to do: passing the time in the company of his closest friend.

An ode to friendship and its wondrous ability to brighten our lives in unexpected ways, Here We Are pays tribute to a friend in the way that only a writer can. Roth encouraged Taylor to write this book, giving him explicit instructions not to sugarcoat anything and not to publish it until after his death. Taylor’s memoir will be the definitive account of Philip Roth as he lived for years to come.

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"If you never met Philip Roth, you can now, for Ben Taylor's new book enacts a kind of resurrection. In addition to bringing a mastery of the writer's work, Taylor has somehow managed to conjure the living man–someone I found wholly at odds with his public persona. Here is the Roth I knew rendered at his most antic, hilarious, rancorous, tender. Forget the work of Boswell's Johnson, I have never read a more touching portrait of literary friendship. Smart, moving, wise–Taylor's page-turning book sets a new standard for both memoir and literary biography. –Mary Karr, author of The Liars Club

"A poignant and frequently poetic tribute to a friendship abundant with laughter, erudition, generosity, devotion, and grace." –Lisa Halliday, author of Asymmetry

"Benjamin Taylor and Philip Roth lived for a time in friendship – that rare, true element. Like that friendship, this account is unsparing, yet loyal and kind. It is also funny. Here We Are made me laugh until its last pages. I was in tears when I closed the book. I had to read it over again, immediately. I'm grateful to have it. –Louise Erdrich, author of The Night Watchman

"...a loving, yet knowing, memoir." –David Remnick, The New Yorker

"Rare and remarkable. A pleasure to read as a revival of Philip's presence, of course, but also as a beautifully novelistic study of two very different men converging on a shared set of obsessions and mutual comforts. Taylor preserves his hero without entombing him. It's Roth to the life." –Adam Gopnik

...fond and eloquent... – Michael Gorra, The New York Review of Books

"A great friendship, that chaste but ardent love, is perhaps also the great undertold story of human passion. Ben Taylor's memoir of his friendship with Philip Roth changes all that. This beauty of testimony, spangled with humor and edged with abiding grief and gratitude is a classic on first reading. –Patricia Hampl, author of The Florist's Daughter

Roth died in 2018, leaving 31 books behind; like other Roth lovers, I will always want more. Benjamin Taylor's new memoir, Here We Are, temporarily eases the loss by giving us more of Roth's voice in conversation: brilliant, profane, and so very funny. . . There's an appealing quality of randomness to this slim memoir that makes it feel like we're tagging along with the two friends on their constant walks, talks and dinners in the dive restaurants Roth preferred on the Upper West Side, where anything could come up, sometimes even big revelations." –Maureen Corrigan, NPR's Fresh Air

"Here We Are is permeated with love. Taylor writes masterfully about his best friend (as they called each other) and readers get to witness a kinder, more generous and loving Roth than they might have imagined. It's a story of real life, or as Roth called it, 'the unwritten world.'"–Jewish Week

"[A] gorgeous new memoir...Taylor's concise volume is a deeply loving, occasionally irreverent portrait of the artist. It's also something of a paean to friendship itself. At this time of disconnection and disorientation, Taylor, president of the Edward Albee Foundation and a trustee of the John Simon Guggenheim Memorial Foundation, reminds us of the anchoring power of human connection." –The Forward

"Taylor's book is essential reading, an affectionate but never sentimental portrait of the furious, divisive, and comic personality who produced a handful of the past century's finest novels." –USA Today

"Beautifully written...Like Roth, Taylor is a terrific raconteur, and readers are likely to be as entertained by his opinions as those of the Pulitzer Prize winning novelist. An eloquent and touching account that should appeal to all who appreciate the value of true friendship." –Library Journal (starred review)

"A brief but enjoyable journey through the life of a legendary author that seamlessly moves from discussing Roth's works to relationships with such fellow writers as Saul Bellow and John Updike. This is not ponderous literary analysis, but a light and thoughtful examination of a great writer and how he performs his craft. More than anything, Taylor has produced a book about conversations and companionship." –Bookreporter

Affection burgeons from these pages. – Le Figaro (Paris)

"This tender-hearted and eloquent paean to long-term friendships will hold special appeal among Roth fans." –Publisher's Weekly

"Enchanting...Personal recollections and literary criticism animate this affecting homage to literary giant Philip Roth. –Shelf Awareness

"[I]n this slim, affectionate memoir, Taylor perfectly captures the essence of Roth's charmingly enigmatic humor and complex behavior. He generously shares memories of their somewhat unexpected friendship, honing in on their quiet, often amusing moments together...A touching and entertaining portrait of Roth that is sure to delight his many readers." –Kirkus Reviews

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ISBN-10: 0143133454
ISBN-13: 9780143133452
Publisher: Penguin Books
Publish Date: 09/07/2021
Dimensions: 7.70" L, 5.00" W, 0.60" H
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